She said, “Hi. How are you?” and I walked away, having already said good morning. I knew it wasn’t really, “Hi. How are you?” but rather “Hi. How are you.”
It reminded me of our German exchange student who used to complain “People ask how you are and then walk away!” She’d try to answer them, thought it was a real question to which they wanted to know the answer.
And I thought of the children on the side of the road in Zambia who would yell, “I’MFINE HOWAREYOU I’MFINE HOWAREYOU I’MFINE HOWAREYOU,” over and over again as if it wsa two words instead of five, as if yelling “HELLO HELLO HELLO” and not a question and answer series.
It bothered me to walk away. It probably would have bothered her more if I’d answered.
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